If you take these three principles and add a fourth, Connection, these are the reasons people spend time online. People connect, learn, shop, and are entertained.
A misconception about Social Media is that the cultural and business transformations are limited primarily to the "Connection" principle. While Facebook, LinkedIn, and social networking tools do allow people to connect with peers and brands where there is an affiliation, the social extent of the web continues to creep beyond social networking.
The socialized web increasingly encompasses all principles of market formation.
Knowledge Exchange
For example, I am a user of ChaCha, a service which allows me to voice or text any question. The question is then routed to a knowledgeable Guide in that subject area or geography. Rather than being patient with the mobile web, I can get an answer from a credible human being in less than a minute. I've used ChaCha to find a breakfast spot in Stevensville, Michigan, confirm that rabbits are nocturnal (they're not, they're crepuscular), and settle countless arguments in bars and automobiles. Social bookmarking, wikis, and forums such as Wikipedia, Yahoo! Answers, Delicious, Edmunds.com, and Beer Advocate all perform the same function. I am trusting people – whether it be a crowd or a "local" – to provide the knowledge I need.
This represents a cultural shift from trust in a few authoritative sources, to trust in thousands of peers. Search engines reflect this shift, as they continue to adjust their algorithms to incorporate recency, recommendations, and user generated content rather than focusing on the most authoritative sites.
Commerce
The social nature of brick-and-mortar shopping continues to pervade the web. Live chat and ratings and reviews were the first mainstream social additions to online shopping. Now, retailers are recognizing that there is more to the shopping experience than usability, availability of information, and efficiency.
Communities connected to transactional sites have slowly become more commonplace, giving buyers the chance to dynamically discuss products and services, share favorites and best practices, and connect around professional and lifestyle issues. A Networked Insights client, Netshops, has recently added a community and shared browsing to some of its 230+ stores.
As users become more comfortable with tools such as Me.dium, Browzmi, or Skabble, and eTailers become more at ease with community interactions, the web will become a virtual shopping mall where people shop with friends and discuss products as they are looking at them. The technology for meeting people, getting quick feedback, sharing opinions, and spending time with friends and colleagues while making buying decisions is already there.
Entertainment
In September, more people saw the Saturday Night Live skit of Tina Fey as Sarah Palin online than watched on TV. No one doubts the success of music, video, gaming, and pornography as online entertainment. Viewership and membership increase, while the social elements make the entertainment more communal and less isolated.
Adding HTML markup to YouTube videos allowed for sharing. Mashups, comments, and video responses make online video a unique form of discourse. Gaming sites such as Dress Up Challenge and I'm in Like with You are equally social and competitive. Last.fm is as much about discovering people as it is music.
At midnight as a restless twelve year old, my choices were to listen to Depeche Mode on cassette, watch MTV, or call a friend. Now, anyone can connect at any time with someone else who shares the same interests.
What does this mean for companies?
Corporate marketing and advertising has been about control: controlling the information (marketing communications), controlling the transaction (merchandising & operations), controlling the experience (branding), and controlling the relationships (customer service). With the socialized web, the power structures have shifted.
People can and will find ways to connect with one another – in gathering knowledge, in shopping, and in seeking entertainment. It is very difficult for companies to not only allow, but to promote these activities within the context of their brand. PR execs, merchants, marketers, and customer support representatives become listeners and matchmakers rather than mouthpieces.
On a weekly basis, I listen to companies express fear at the notion of opening up their closed sites. Brands that "get" social media are not only opening their doors and windows to fresh air, but have little choice but to accept the bugs, stench of garbage in the alley, and gusts of wind. As a marketer, wouldn't you rather know what people are actually saying? Customers recognize that companies are comprised of human beings that have personalities. They don't expect perfection. They are becoming less satisfied with the hyper-sterilized, unnatural gleam of the controlled experience. They want to roam, explore, and look under the rug. They want to connect with people. Those who feel comfortable will tell their friends, and be back again and again. Losing control can mean gaining loyal customers.
The web has evolved. And the social qualities of this evolution have the potential to help consumer and company alike.
Do you want your experience with companies to be humanized?